Are you struggling to dream about your future? If so, you’re not alone! In fact, it’s a common struggle for many women. This inability to dream big is usually because of unfulfilled dreams in the past, disappointments, putting others’ needs before your own, or perhaps you’ve thought it was selfish. And, once you’ve forgotten how to dream or squelched that desire, it can be hard to begin dreaming again.

Thankfully you can learn to dream again!

My favorite way to dream is by spending time with God and journaling. Here are 20 journaling questions to help you begin to dream big.

  1. As a child, what did I dream of doing?
  2. As I look back on my life, what lessons have had the greatest impact?
  3. What advice would I give my 20-year-old self?
  4. How do I want to feel?
  5. What brings me joy?
  6. Who do I want to spend time with regularly?
  7. What are my greatest strengths and skills?
  8. What words / phrases best describe me?
  9. What are things that I’d love to do or experience?
  10. If I could make a living doing anything I wanted, what would I do?
  11. How do I define success?
  12. Who do I want to be?
  13. What do I want more of in my life?
  14. What is missing from my life right now?
  15. If time or money didn’t matter, what would I LOVE to do?
  16. Describe my ideal day (from the time I wake up to when I go to bed).
  17. How do I want to make a difference in the world?
  18. How do I want to be remembered?
  19. 1 year from today, what do I want my life to look like?
  20. 5 years from now, what do I want my life to look like?

I’d love to hear from you! Do you have a favorite question that helps you to dream big?

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About The Author

Kelly Thorne Gore

Kelly is the Founder and Chief Visionary Officer of iBloom, a faith-based personal development company equipping women to live with purpose and intentionality. As a coach, author, and speaker, Kelly helps women grow in every area of life—faith, health, business, relationships, and more—without losing sight of what matters most.

Through her holistic approach, Kelly empowers women to align their daily habits with their God-given vision, steward their one life well, and create lasting impact—starting right where they are. She’s passionate about helping women stop merely surviving and start truly blooming.

Kelly lives in Kentucky with her husband, Jon, and their two children, Sophie and Ben. When she’s not coaching or creating, you’ll find her living out what she teaches—supporting her kids in their activities, serving on the school PTO, or journaling by the lake. She’s most at home when she’s pouring into her family, creating margin for what matters, and dreaming big with her favorite people.